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Snip  That wound needs to heal.. It will heal only when *you* are ready to close the book on the issue and wish her well in whatever she does.. Send her love and you will heal yourself. I do wish her well, more than you can imagine. I send her love every moment of my day. But it goes into an abyss because I have no contact with her. When love is released, it never goes into an abyss.  If you truly and unselfishly send another individual your love,  it will get to her.  The only misses are when we fool ourselves into thinking we are sending love, when we are actually hanging on.  Love is selfless. Michael

It starts with you and it ends with you. Any attitudinal change on your part would start the ball rolling in a different direction. That attitude being that one can shine the floodlight of affection in any direction and anyone in the spotlight can become one's soulmate? I don't think so. It makes life a superficial circus act that pales in comparison to the one profoundly engaging love that some have been privileged to experience.   Joe Dlhopolsky This e-mail address is being protected from spam bots, you need JavaScript enabled to view it

Hi everybody! Great to have such a reaction. Thank you all. For me it was a striking experience. To meet someone who understands you without words, who you love without doubt, without asking for reasons. Someone I lost because of reasons I don't understand myself exactly. And now it's just like someone said. I can't imagine to be as happy as before with someone else, because they are not like her. And somehow I don't think I will ever find someone like her again. Well I wouldn't want to miss that experience. I learned so much as never before. By the way: Did anyone of you ever read one of Richard Bach Books ? jack Winning is not a sometime thing; It's an all the time thing. You don't win once in a while; you don't do things right once in a while; you do them right all the time. (Vince Lombardi, American Football Coach) http://www.tu-ilmenau.de/~jack

The one thing that I had learned before I met Hal is to cut short relationships that aren't working. Thanks for sharing this Peaches.  It was very difficult for me to completely sever myself from the man I was engaged to.  Wise firends like our Yahya are truly a blessing.  I was hesitant to end my relationship because of how it would affect his life; however, keeping a relationship going that I was unhappy in was not the answer.  My good friend Yahya provided me with the tools to make the best decision for myself. Thank you for sharing. *hug* Peanut Official Oceangazer & Peacemaker of the RFA